bose85 (original poster new member #86409) posted at 4:04 PM on Thursday, December 18th, 2025
Thank you to every one thats read my post and left some advice.
I know every single one of you is right.
Its just hard to walk away from my marriage thats been part of me for over twenty odd years. I keep thinking how could she do what she did. So I asked her. I told here that I don't feel safe in this relationship. Her answer was "It's not safe because of what you keep doing. U keep talking about this and question leaving. That's not nice on me"
So it was ok when I was sitting at home with the kids while she was out with the AP.That wasnt nice on me either. But she didn't care about that.
Im worried about loosing my wife and my family. I tell her every day. She is never worried. I have asked her why and she just says "here we go again". Then spills the same words about how she is going no where, she was stupid.
Its like she isnt sorry for what she did.
I get it. But it still doesn't make it any easier to leave.
